My Family Sucks

I wish I didn't have to speak to my family anymore. I know for some people who don't have a family due to death etc, this may not make sense, but I seriously don't want anything to do with about 90% of my family. I dislike them immensely, they are just mostly annoying, clingy and are users. I am upset because my mother, every time I speak to her, has something she wants me to do for her. It's never a, "hi how are you doing call" it is always a "hi, how are you doing, hey can you clean out the shed for me" call. I am tired of it, I am tired of her using me.

As far as I am concerned any debts I had with her are settled and I don't owe her anything. Parents have this bullshit idea in their minds that because they had you, raised you and paid for your shit until you could move out; that you are then forever indebted to them for being alive. I hate that shit. They never want to understand that you are grown up and that you should be beyond that or more importantly that you never chose to be born.

My mom calls me and says "When am I going to see you?" I just saw her last week, but she still asks like it never happened. I get upset and bothered when ever she asks that because I always tell her I am busy, and she doesn't want to believe that. She always pulls this shit out of her ass she will exclaim that she is my mother and I should respect her more and come visit her etc. I hate this shit. She needs a boyfriend. She needs someone who can keep her busy long enough so that she isn't sitting there lonely. I understand this is due to loneliness, but goddamn it, I am busy. I am young and I have drive to do things, to better myself.

I don't mind seeing her every now and again but goddamn it, we are talking about cutting into my fucking weekends. My weekends are precious to me. She likes to say its been a week, 2 weeks, 3 weeks since I have seen her, but in reality it has been 2, 4, 6 days if you only measure it in weekends. The week days do not count, I am busy working and so is she. Clingy Parents suck.