What makes two people want to hang out with one another?
What constitutes "Hanging Out"?
From what I have gathered, it has to be more than just similar interests. It usually stems from comfort. If I am hanging out with them and they are too abrasive, then I don't want to hang out with them. I like people who are polite, but fun to be with. I don't particularly enjoy loud noisy clubs where I can't hear the person next to me (sometimes yes). I have been wondering though, what makes people want to hang out?
Honestly speaking, what is there to do as a unit? Not much...
1. You can watch something together. This is the least threatening thing to do.
2. Play something together. Which can be slightly threatening when someone takes the game too seriously.
3. You can sit and talk. This can usually end up in arguments over religion or politics.
4. You can be silent together. One person reads and another can play a game etc in the same room...
5. You can engage in a team sport. Again this can end in a disaster if there is too much arrogance.
I am not sure if I nailed them all, but that is what I have found most of the time. So in reallity, there isn't much.
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